To Love and to Be Loved

So I've always wondered about something.. How do you know when you love someone, and if they are the 'right guy?'
I'll just stop this thought right here and clarify that Im not in a relationship, but the last time that I was close, I fought with this idea good and hard cuz I just wasn't coming to a point.. I knew I was loved, but I could never say it back.

Anyway the other night i had this dream that it was my wedding day, and I was marrying a black man, he was big, I think he was a football player, a kinda famous one, but in my dream he never had a name, so I cant tell you who he was. Anyways I married him, and in my dream I remember looking at him and being like ' wow I really and fully Love this man' it was a pretty powerful feeling for being just in a dream. but when I woke up and thought about it I was like ' that was really reassuring, one day Im gonna be in love, and Im gonna love him without a doubt' so this was my thought or shall we say dream of the week.
Yesterday was my Dads 50th Birthday, so we had abit of a partay for him. I have the greatest dad, and can honestly say Im a Daddy's girl. He's the kinda dad that has a shotgun for when guys come to get his girls haha. Yeah I love him! Happy Birthday Dad!
I also had the worst flu on Sunday, spent over 12 hours IN BED. So weak, felt like I got driven over by a truck, had a fever, and was dehyderated, it sucked pretty bad. Apparently my flu shot didnt' cover that type of flu lol. hows everybody liking this big dumping of snow today!?